off being Judgy, Picky and Dodgy =)

Assalamualaikum and Good Day people..

Alhamdulilah, I've finished my first year of studies here, and left with another 3 years..long way to go yet I believe so much things to learn and to gain...First of all, I would like to thank mr anonymous for responding to my previous post. Just that, I'm a bit disappointed coz I'm not able to at least know your name..however, it is fine, once your are ready you know where to find me...:)

there are 3 words to describe human in general including myself =):

1. JUDGY
2.PICKY
3.DODGY

these 3 words are very related to human. dont u agree with me?? I've an interesting story, it happened last Friday to be exact Friday prayer.

I was walking along the road to the gym, then i met a couple who are asking me the direction to the UNSW main walk..happened to be, this guy is wearing a white long sleeves shirt, with a short, taatoo all over the body and he is wearing a 'kopiah'.the one looks like 'jew*ish' kopiah..and the lady is so ............... hehe..tp xpelah, I told them how to get to the main walk from the place..Once I've finished giving the direction, the guy said:

"Thank you, may God bless" I was like..okok..normal kot ayat tu.. =)

while walking i made a few assumptions,

1. mesti brother td tu jewish xpon seangkatan dgnnya..
2. dorg kenapa cari main walk? ada ape je kat situ..

So, once i got to the gym, while sitting suddenly I saw that guy in the gym..I was like "apakah dia buat kat sni??" and happened to be he is coming towards me and asking:

guy: "Assalamualaikum..have u prayed??"

me: not yet, we havent started..

guy: do they provide any clothes here, coz i'm wearing short and i need to cover my knees..
#at the same time he lowered his short and asked me:
guy: is this ok?

me: yeah, it is alright, you covered your knees fair enough...

then I keep on observing that guy, *sorry khatib, i wasnt pay any attention to your khutbah..i'm so occupied to him*

then, i saw the guy he looking for a piece of cloth to cover his knees, after a few attempts trying to wrap his legs with a piece of clothes I saw him talking to a man, and abruptly he ran downstairs and i dont know for what reasons..
time tu, terus terlintas kat hati ini, okies if the guy datang smula, i'll offer my jacket so he can stop looking for a way to cover his knees..so he came back, and straight away i gave my jacket to him..the only thing that i can see from him is " happiness"..he was so 'happy'...tp time tu kat otak ni jahat juga, mcmne kalau after solat xdpt jumpe dia? abes lah gone my jacket...(bersangka buruk)..

so after prayer, we have a little chat,rupa-rupanya dia miss Friday Prayer kat masjid yang slalu die pergi..so  die naik bus ke UNSW utk usha ada conduct prayer ke x..so on the way die ke main walk die nmpk ada muslim sdg ke gym so die follow..thats why i end up jumpe die kat gym and rupa-rupanya, dia baru convert to Islam, it took him 7 years to fully convert to Islam..He said:

" when God wants the truth, He will show you the truth, no matter how or what it is"

then, while we were walking to the musolla, He asked me a very hard question:

guy: Now, i have trouble for Fajr prayer? how do you find it? Is it hard for you??

me: Owh, at the beginning, it is hard for everybody but you will be fine as time passes.

guy: what I do is, after my night prayer (assuming Isya') I will ask God to wake me up tomorrow morning for Fajr prayer.

me: indeed that is the better way...(ni jwpn yg real)
me: ala,rilek jah, ada je muslim yg langsung xbangun utk subuh and even some of them dont bother to pray..(ni jwpn yg kurang sesuai skit lah)

so we ended up our conversation by shaking hands and hug skit then he said:
" may God bless u, insyaAllah...I hope to see you around and I'm happy to have muslim brothers to help me"

okies..the story actually panjang lagi, this is just part of them and ni yang i think penting lah..

JUDGY: clear gile berlaku time awal2 jumpe die time die tanya direction..kat otak ni mcm2 perception dah ada..pastu time jumpa dlm gym pon macam2 idea liar kluar dr kepala otak ni..which is not right, as human we dont have the right to judge people..it is not our call to judge this person jahat lah, this person baik lah..this person mcm ni lah..coz human judgement sentiasa ada kekurangannya, kerana kekurangan dan limitasi sebagai manusia menyebabkan 'judgement' kita sering kali tersasar.till we know the person very well then kite leh 'judge' die..but i think the word is not 'judging' but to 'describing' him. Afterall, we have to know, kita tiada kuasa utk menghukum sesama manusia, kerana yang Maha berkuasa ialah Allah, tuhan pemilik sekian alam, He knows what is the best for his servants..

"(iaitu) Yang telah menciptakan aku, maka Dia yang memberi petunjuk kepada aku" 26:78

PICKY: kenapa harus being so picky? as human do we have much choice to be so picky? Yeah indeed yes, tp in this situation, kenapa kita perlu jd so picky?? kita memilih utk tolong org tertentu jah..yang kita nampak nice and baik je..klu x..jangan harap..(logiklah..klu main taram je ada gak yg end up dead)..In this situation, time die tanya pasal lutut die tu, boleh je nk offer my jacket dr awal, tp kenapa tidak?? sbb time tu kat otak mmg dah mcm2 kuar r..kn senang dr awal terus offer..xdelah menyusahkan dia..malahan boleh mnggembirakan hati die dari awal lg :) but naluri seorang manusia, membuat kita menjadi 'picky' mungkin sbb kita nak yang terbaik utk kita, so kita try to avoid any bad possiblities yg might happen..which is not our fault..tp kalau lah case mcm ni berlaku smula, the first thing we need to consider is to trust the brother, and help him to the point to ease him..yelah, dah lah dia baru, kalau smua org buat dont know je..mmg kesianlah dia..kenapa kita leh trust?? klu dalam cerita vampire diaries season 2 episode 7..time Bonnie jumpa Lucy, how Bonnie the witch boleh trust Lucy the witch also?? sbb dia boleh rasakan the feeling of trust..n tup3 rupa2nya dorg cousin..see!! same goes here, sesama muslim kita kne put our trust to one another..yang mengikat kita adalah ikatan iman dan aqidah which is stronger than any bonds..Kalaulah semua org nk being picky and judgy at the same time, I'm pretty sure the ideal ukhwahship yg cuba dibentuk xkn tercapai..

DODGY: no comment on the current moment..maybe on the next post..haha..


I left the rest on your own evaluation, cerita ini bukan utk mengaibkn sesiapapon..tetapi sekadar berkongsi pengalaman yang ada..maybe penceritaan melalui penulisan ini xdpt mnggambarkn situasi sebenar..and dlu2 before datang ke sni, org slalu cite kat overseas nt jgn terkejut kalau solat nmpk ada mamat yg badan penuh taatoo tp sdg solat and now it happened right in front of my eyes =)

p/s:
1. i started my work training already..so much to learn and to adapt..
2.Summer holiday started already..
3. If korg rindukan saya, dont come into my dream, text me or fb me...kesian phone ni dah lame xberbunyi..hahaha..
4. owh, the guy's name is Ji, and he offered me free surfing lesson klu jumpe lg nt and dia nk ajar sampai i can stand on the board..hahah =)

 right after abes exam, petang tu terus meronggeng ke wollongong..hahah..gigih bukan??

after wollongong sambung drift ke western sydney...hahaha

and smlm appreciation nite katering..good job katering :) *terasa baju n seluar tu cantiklah =)

with love <3 <3 <3